What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a loving touch filled with attention and presence, without a standard kind and predetermined outcome. Tantra massage is given from the heart. In a tantric massage, the whole body gets involved and erogenous zones can also be touched. Naturally, always with respect for (mutual) borders. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy also gets attention. A tantra massage occurs on the basis of equality and develops an intimate connection in between massage giver and receiver. Psychologically, physically, at heart level and sometimes even at the depths of body and soul. The function of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the instructions of) a natural, thrilled state of being. The impact is typically a wonderful physical, psychological well-being. Generally, the receiver is really relaxed, wonderfully flowing and ending up well in the heart, and in greater spheres.
Tantric Massage is all about Loving touch
Tantra massage is given from the heart. A lot of touch will take place through the hands (or body to body) it is really enjoy that touches. The recipient is likewise present, and gets active and likewise feels (ultimately) from the heart.
Full of attention and existence during tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch complete of attention and existence. Do not look around or being busy with something else, no, your complete attention is on providing or getting the massage. Tantra massage is not about routine, set patterns are really out of the question.
A tantric massage isn't really about a predetermined outcome
A tantric massage will constantly be various. You never ever understand how it will end up. It is not the method or the wanted series of rubbing that is essential, it's about what is appropriate/necessary. What/where does the recipient most require at the moment? Exactly what is good for her/him? Love understands exactly what to do, like always has a proper action. And so the massage will be precisely that what is needed. Enough is that the provider is present and keeps tuning into his/her heart, to the frequencies of love. The divine also has its own strategy, you cannot "do" it.
Tantric massages therefore frequently take a really unexpected course. Whatever fits into a larger whole. For example, a tantric massage does not constantly have to be "fine", ending in bliss. A "stopped working" massage can be the first step in a great development.
Ways to get the very best from your tantric massage
Constantly with respect to limits
We understood it for a long period of time, obviously, however considering that the #MeToo discoveries, some things have shown up on the planet of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who require their own sexual pleasure/lust on "clients". Obviously, this has little to do with tantric massage. The safety of both provider and receiver always should be guaranteed. Loving attunement constantly comes.
Set clear limits in advance
Every person (other than when you are informed) has his limits. This is human and is likewise necessary (check out the short article on safeguarding limits. So believe beforehand (both as provider and receiver) what your limitations are. Ensure there is a proper consumption, and a good preparation (likewise with your lover/massage partner). Set clear boundaries ahead of time: about psychological boundaries, as well as make sure for clearness about physical limits. It is a misconception that a tantric massage must always be naked, nonsense. With clothes on is also totally okay (though hard to work with oil then). It is likewise a mistaken belief that a tantric massage should be concentrated on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), rubbish too. Personally, we have actually given/received many tantric massages just on the head. In addition, really each cell is sensuous, however you will be surprised.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Trigger and let circulation easily
Triggering and releasing the flow of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. In a tantric massage, the whole body gets involved and erogenous zones can also be touched. In tantra massage we play with the activation of fundamental/ sexual/ psychological/ enthusiastic/ love/ creation/ user-friendly energy.
Concentrated on the natural thrilled state of being
There is dig this a discussion going on whether tantra massage is part of "real" tantra. Well ... Tantra is an extremely useful, body-oriented motion, a vision of life targeted at growing in love and awareness. In a split second you can end up being enlightened (by 1000% surrender), but typically, that is a procedure in time. Tantra understands various strategies to utilize on the journey to enlightenment. As far as we are concerned, tantra massage is one of them. Tantra has no purpose besides self-realization: restoring the natural (thrilled) state of being.
Normally leading to a fantastic physical, mental well-being
Tantra helps you to become more relaxed, more vibrant, more energetic, more caring and so a lot more. Actually, you "find out" to enjoy yourself, your body, your (sexual) energy and life itself. This is likewise the case with a tantra massage. Since this is exactly what occurs often: the recipient is enjoying it! Taking pleasure in is totally permitted! A tantra massage is usually nice, often scrumptious. We, therefore, invite you to totally enjoy getting ánd providing a tantric massage. Feel, use your senses. Hear, smell, taste, feel and show that you like it. Let your body speak!
What Tantric massage isn't?
There are numerous types of massage. Obviously, all massages have specific practices and methods in common. Yet there is a huge difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (focused on relaxation).
* Sports massage (concentrated on the muscles).
* Erotic massage (intended at pleasure satisfaction).
* (Body) treatment (targeted at recovery).
Well because you are actually super energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT a sensual massage either. It's a kind of style these days to see tantra massage as a treatment, but therapy is an occupation apart.
The essentials of tantric massage.
For a comprehensive description, see the short article on the essentials of tantric massage. In summary, the following basics stand out:
Tantra massage ideas-- before you begin
* Create a warm, confutable tantric massage space (this can be done easily on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Offer excellent conditions (physically, however likewise psychologically).
* Make clear agreements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage ideas-- throughout the massage.
* Start, stay, end connected to each other.
* Constantly keep your attention on the massage.
* Make sure your massage is demand complimentary, don't press or force anything.
* Open your own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Activate (sexual) energy and distribute it throughout the entire body.
* Don't only use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* From time to time ... do nothing at all! Be 1000% present. Delight in!
* Use your senses.
* Offer feedback (satisfaction noises?).
* Integrate in combination (rest) minutes.
Need totally free.
A tantra massage is not a work task, so as a provider you can also enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Once again, don't try to enforce anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! You may not be waiting for an emotional cry, however a tantric massage has no goal.
Tantra massage pointers-- after the massage.
* Take sufficient time to process, to let the massage settle.
* Require time to exchange your experiences.
* Recognize that a tantric massage can have an effect for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not instantly go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 important tantra massage pointers (insights/rules).
* Don't work to a goal. We get asked all the time, it this a delighted ending massage? Yes it can be, it typically is however there is no pressure for you to perform, this has to do with letting that energy flow.
* Regard borders, set clear boundaries beforehand. Our masseuses are mostly extremely open minded - they are naturally because of the nature of their work but they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the dreams of the recipient in mind, obviously. Nevertheless, know that it can turn out in a different way.
* It is constantly an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Activate sexual energy. Stimulate the entire body. Being aroused is typical and preferable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are essential! A lot can show up.
* Be alert to renewed freezing minutes. Avoid limitations from being crossed once again.
* Action by step becoming freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Delighting in the restored balance and connection in between sex and heart.
* Offer feedback (e.g. pleasure sounds) and offer combination minutes (simply doing absolutely nothing).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage happen?
Do not discharge, however recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we indicate do not rush towards the weather ending, hold it, remain in the moment, let that sexual energy construct and flood your whole body.
Possible impacts of tantric massage.
Provides peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. During/after the massage it becomes peaceful in your head (often completely empty).
Brings your life energy into motion.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of splendidly streaming life energy. Your body armor ends up being softer, thinner and even disappears. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a potential recovery effect. It is possible that obstructions, emotional injuries pertain to the surface area. There may be a psychological release, including physical responses such as shaking, weeping, shocks. Despite the fact that tantra massage is not the like healing, this release may heal some blockades.
Makes you soft and caring.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You become more loving, you learn exactly what it is like to like yourself.
You will feel comfortable in your body. The combination of relaxation and a great deal of energy means that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies. With the love improvement, you might end up being not just happy but even euphoric. A happy state of being is possible. The more you surrender, the better you will feel.
In short, tantric massage is ...
* A caring touch.
* Filled with attention and existence.
* The entire body gets involved.
* Energetic massage, consisting of sexual energy.
* Without standard kind, without predefined result.
* With regard to (mutual) boundaries.
* Develops a (heart) connection in between the giver and receiver.
* Concentrated on the natural, thrilled state of being of the recipient.
* Typically leading to a terrific physical, mental well-being (of both).